A Step by Step Guide to Starting the Dating Game Over

Have you noticed that our society gets more 'high tech' by the day? It seems that everything is constantly evolving and the dating game is no exception! If you're just getting back into the game of dating, you may find that the rules have changed quite a bit. Fear not however, I'm here to give you a step by step guide for modern dating.

Step One - Virtual Meeting

While it's still perfectly acceptable to meet potential dates the 'good old-fashioned' way, today's singles are maximizing their odds of finding Mr. or Ms. Right by heading to the computer. If you've never used your computer for dating - it's time to step into the modern day dating world! These days it seems like every time you turn on the television, there's a commercial for online dating. I recommend checking out some of the larger, more popular dating sites. One I particularly like is http://www.SinglesCrowd.com . Once there, you'll be able to check out other members and set up a profile of your own.

Step Two - The First Hello

Once you've made contact with someone that you'd like to date, it's time to meet them. Usually, you'll have a phone conversation to decide on where to meet. SinglesCrowd.com recommends that you keep this phone conversation as short as possible so that you'll have plenty to discuss on your first meeting. Now notice, I did not call this your first date. There's a reason for that! This should not be a date. It should be your 'first hello.' I recommend meeting for coffee or drinks. In other words, you want it to be short and sweet. If it's not going to great, then you're not stuck with this person for an extended amount of time. If you find that it's going fabulously, you can extend the date or set up a real first date.

Step Three - The Date

The days of dinner and movies are definitely out when it comes to first dates. You want to set up something fun and exciting. Studies have repeatedly shown that when two people get their adrenaline pumping together it stimulates the same areas of the brain that are linked to feelings of love. So be as creative as you can. Go scuba or snorkeling, or try a theme park or even going for a bike ride will make for a great first date.

Step Four - The Goodbye

The new rules for the end of the date are anything goes. It's really a matter of the chemistry between you and your date. Whether you hug, kiss, or perhaps spend the night together, what's important to keep in mind is that none of these options are considered 'taboo' anymore. If you're the old fashioned type, give a hug and set up the next date during your goodbye. This way your date will know that you're interested in them but aren't quite ready for a kiss. If you're not so sure that your date is the 'spend the night' type, ask them back to your place for a night-cap. If they say yes, chances are your night-cap will lead to more.

Step Five - The Post Date Rules

At SinglesCrowd.com, they say you should forget about the 'wait a couple of days' before calling silliness. I recommend that you just do whatever feels right. One thing you may want to keep in mind though is that there really are plenty of fish in the sea! Feel free to explore other options and just enjoy being in the dating game without feeling like you have to commit to someone right away.